Shabbat Greetings
This week we read Toledot(Genesis 25:19-28:9), a portion filled with the complicated stories of family and of blessings, misunderstandings, challenges, and the hope that we can grow into the people we are meant to be. In many ways, Toledot reads like a family musical; a little bit dramatic, sometimes messy, but at its heart full of love and the desire to pass something meaningful to the next generation.
We meet Isaac and Rebecca raising two very different sons: Esau and Jacob. Two brothers who don’t always get along; two people who want to be seen, understood, and blessed. And at the center of the story is the blessing, the bracha, Isaac hopes to give. One of the most striking moments in the portion comes when Jacob, disguised as Esau, stands before his father. Isaac touches him and says words many of us can relate to: “The voice is the voice of Jacob, but the hands are the hands of Esau.” (27:22) Isaac hears one thing… but sees another. He is trying to understand who is standing before him.
This moment teaches something powerful to all of us, especially with our wonderful Off-Key singers along with our 6th & 7th graders who are learning what it means to grow into your own identity. Isaac’s confusion reminds us that: It’s not always easy to know who we are. Sometimes our “voice” doesn’t match what the world expects from us. Sometimes we try on different roles, different masks, different versions of ourselves, hoping to figure out which one fits. But the Torah invites us to listen carefully to our own inner voice, the kol Yaakov—the unique sound, spirit, and truth that belongs only to us. And here’s the beautiful part: In Judaism, your voice doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to be yours.
Which brings us to the Off-Key singers. The name “Off-Key” reminds us that music isn’t about perfection; it’s about participation. It’s about showing up, using your voice, joining the harmony of your community. In fact, some of the most meaningful singing on Shabbat isn’t polished—it’s heartfelt. It’s real. Our 6th and 7th graders know this too. As you prepare for b’nai mitzvah and take on more responsibility within Jewish life, you’re learning to use your voice to chant Torah, lead prayers, ask questions, and express who you are becoming. When the Torah says “the voice is the voice of Jacob,” it’s reminding us that each of us must discover our own voice, whether in prayer, in learning, in friendship, or in the choices we make.
Tonight, as we sing and pray together: Our voices bless one another. Our presence blesses one another. Our willingness to learn, to try, to grow—this blesses our community. Whether you sing on-key or off-key… Whether you’re a student just starting your Jewish journey or an adult who has lived many chapters…Your voice adds something only you can add. And may this Shabbat—with song, learning, and community—remind us that every voice, every story, and every soul belongs here.
SHABBAT SHALOM