Shabbat Greetings

This shabbat is a unique shabbat. It is called “Shabbat Nachamu” – the Shabbat of Consolation. After three weeks of sadness, and Tuesday’s fasting and mourning for the destruction of the Holy Temple, this weekend we are supposed to emphasize messages of hope and healing.

And yet our hearts are burdened with the continuing challenge we are witnessing in our beloved land of Israel – Israel’s necessary response to the horrible attacks by Hamas back on October 7th and the need to return the hostages home along with the attacks by Hezbollah up north and the Houthis from the south. The need for peace and reconciliation among opposing sides is great.

In the book of Isaiah, the words we read in this week’s Haftarah, “Nachamu, nachamu ami” (Comfort, comfort my people). These words remind us that a midst difficult times, we are called to be agents of comfort, reconciliation, and peace. The pursuit of justice is essential, but it must not come at the cost of peace and unity. We must find ways to engage in constructive dialogue, understanding that different perspectives contribute to a thriving society. We are “The Family of Israel – “Bait Yisrael” and peace in the home has priority in Jewish Law. The rabbis teach us that conflicts will always pop up. If we have a sense of humbleness and self-awareness, we can use these as opportunities for growth. Be open about what you need to work on, and what your spouse and you need to work on, too. In an emotionally healthy environment, these strategies will engender more positivity and a greater mutual commitment to growth and improvement. Likewise, we may disagree on different social and political issues; however, we can discuss and learn from one another rather than be dismissive of each other.

It is not enough to pray for peace; we must actively work towards it. Hillel taught in Pirkei Avot (2:4) – “Do not judge others until you have walked in their shoes.” When we put ourselves in the shoes of those with opposing views, we can begin to understand the underlying concerns and fears that fuel their beliefs. Empathy opens the door to conversations and talking leads to resolution.

The past might be marred with conflicts and animosities, but we must find the strength to let go and move forward with a shared vision of a more harmonious future. It is not weakness to forgive; it is a display of strength and resilience as a people. On this Shabbat Nachamu, let us pray for the wisdom and courage to be peacemakers in Israel. May we actively seek opportunities to bridge divides, to build connections, and to promote harmony. Let us remember that our strength lies not only in our pursuit of justice, but our dedication to do so with love and understanding. Our prayer for this Shabbat: May God bless us with the ability to heal our wounds, reconcile our differences, and restore peace to our beloved Israel. And may we find comfort in knowing that as a united nation, we can overcome any challenge that lies ahead.

SHABBAT SHALOM